Wednesday, September 9, 2009

当你失败,失败转发

When You Fail, Fail Forward (There’s no mistake and fail, there’s just a lesson)

Then he began to curse and swear, saying, "I do not know the Man!" Immediately a rooster crowed. And Peter remembered the word of Jesus who had said to him, "Before the rooster crows, you will deny Me three times." So he went out and wept bitterly. Matthew 26:74-75

Everybody fails, errs, and makes mistakes. You've heard the saying "To err is human, to forgive, divine." Alexander Pope wrote that over 250 years ago. And he was only paraphrasing an ancient saying that was common during the time of the Romans. Recently I came across something called "Rules for Being Human." I think several of these describe well the state we're in:
Rule #1: You will learn lessons.
Rule #2: There are no mistakes - only lessons.
Rule #3: A lesson is repeated until it is learned.
Rule #4: If you don't learn the easy lessons, they get harder.
Rule #5: You'll know you've learned a lesson when your actions change.
You see, writer Norman Cousins was right when he said, "The essence of man is imperfection." Failure is simply a price we pay to achieve success. If we learn to embrace that new definition of failure, then we are free to start moving ahead - and failing forward.

当你失败,失败转发



然后,他开始诅咒,发誓,说:“我不知道的人!”立即公鸡打鸣。和彼得想起耶稣的字谁对他说公鸡之前,“乌鸦,你会拒绝我三次。”于是他走了出去,痛哭起来。马修26:74-75



每个人都失败了,稍有差错,并会犯错误。你听说过的说:“犯错是人性,宽恕,神。”亚历山大波普说,超过250年前。而他只是表达一个古老并称这是在罗马人的时间普遍。最近我碰到一些所谓的“人权规则的存在。”我认为这些详细地介绍了我们国家在几个:



    规则#1:你会吸取教训。

    规则#2:有没有错误-只有教训。

    规则#3:一个教训是反复进行,直到它的经验教训。

    规则#4:如果你不容易学习的经验教训,他们会更加困难。

    规则#5:你知道你已经学到了教训,当你的行动改变。



你看,作家诺曼曾斯是正确的,他说:“人的本质是不完美。”失败只是我们付出的代价取得成功。如果我们学会接受失败的新定义,那么我们可以自由地开始向前迈进-和不前进。

1 comment:

~Candy_ying~ said...

基督徒是可以-
四面受敵,卻不被困住;心裏作難,卻不致失望;遭逼迫,卻不被丟棄;打倒了,卻不致死亡。
靠耶穌,我們以得到完全的勝利。
彼得,大衛王。。都曾跌到。。
但是,他們願意全心悔改,所以,上帝仍然大大的使用他們。。

所以,跌倒了,失敗了。。。再次回到耶穌基督的腳前,我們仍能被上帝使用,作他合用的器皿。。。

別因爲你一時的失敗,而阻擋了上帝要成就在你身上的美事。。。

從失敗中,學習。。。